I'm pretty with flaws but I like myself and stay to myself?
My body is perfect to me anyway...Women always try to point out my flaws. Ok one time this girl told this other girl u look better than her her nose is to big loud enough for me to hear? Another time this guy told this women who does not like me he didn't find me sexy loud enough for me to hear. He was lying because when we are alone he gets exicted and try to mack.Most of these women do not like me and aklways try to block it was a group of new guys that started working at my job. They were all on them. So eventually one of them tried to talk to me and told me the women calls me Olive Oyl . I keep to myself and they single me out. Is it jealousy? All the women were over these guys and I just walk by and when the girl walked off he immeditely came over and started talking to me. What is the deal?
my thing is why are the saying stuff about me so I can hear if it'
I am not sure if they are jealous, but they sure have a selfesteem problem (that much is obvious). I, being a blunt person would confront them. It’s not like they are going to hit you. If you wish to be vicious on the confrontation, select all of the would be canidates’ worst features and go home. Once at home take some time make a good joke about each one, then memorize them. Return to work the next day and booyow you can tear down the tirants with their own tactics. It really does piss me off when people do this. I was subject to this as a child as I grew up dirt poor and was picked on for wearing hand me downs and not very social by choice.
Hope this helps!!
Women are naturally mean. when we are around other women that we see as a threat the mean in us comes out. Don’t worry about them continue to be sweet and you will attract more attention. Remember when your mom used to say honey attracts more flys than vinegar does? This is what she was talking about
I have that problem with my husband’s friends wives because I am younger and they resent it! I am almost 45 and he is a handsome 61. He was single for 15 years so I am not a homewrecker. I don’t judge age for friends and name calling is terrible! When women do that to me I just ignore them. Calling you Olive Oyl? I bet they are fat and just jealous. One woman called my husband a cradle robber!! He knows I do not want to socialise with those women and I have a few friends of my own.
The most important thing I can say about this, is that you are not alone. This happens to everyone. No matter what you look like. It’s really not even about what you look like. It’s about other people trying to degrade others because they are dramatic. You will always find these types of people everywhere. I believe the prettier you are, the more it will happen to you out of jealousy. I would not worry about what anyone says or thinks about you. When you really focus on not caring about what others think or say, you won’t even notice it happening as much. And remember…everyone has flaws.